"I need you for my happiness”
“I feel happier when you are around”
These are some of the lines we often hear and say to our loved ones. The reason is that we become dependent on them for our certain needs. Be it friend, partner, or relative, we are somehow connected with the people around us. We weave our lives around them and their ignorance is something that hurts us badly. When we see them moving towards others, that is far from us, we might feel jealous. We start recalling the past when we were together and happy. It's hard to see that the time you both were enjoying together has passed on to some other person. Our value in someone’s life has decreased. Often jealousy is considered negative, but it is also an emotion. It occurs when our beloved one is becoming more inclined towards someone other than us. Depending on its intensity, often it leads to the disliking of the person to whom our beloved one is inclined.
Jealousy when occurs, should not be ignored. Whenever you feel jealous, give it a thought. What is the reason that you are feeling so bad? Why is the person moving away from us? Has the relation badly affected due to some reason. One reason could be that you are not giving appropriate time to the person because of which he/she is moving away from you. The other reason might be that the relationship with another person is becoming much better. Then should we keep on trying to improve our relationship? An initial small effort is appreciated, but what if things are still not changing. Then we should stop making hard efforts, as an excess of everything is eventually harmful. If things are nor working out, then we should accept the fact that your beloved one is happy with that other person. If you will keep running after a person, he will start running away from you. So better is to accept and leave everything in the hands of time.